{"id":9349,"date":"2024-03-13T14:09:11","date_gmt":"2024-03-13T14:09:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aercmn.com\/?p=9349"},"modified":"2024-03-13T14:09:11","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T14:09:11","slug":"my-pets-final-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.aercmn.com\/blog\/my-pets-final-day\/","title":{"rendered":"My Pet’s Final Day"},"content":{"rendered":"

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In the difficult moment of <\/span>accepting <\/span>it\u2019s<\/span> time to say goodbye to a beloved pet, having the opportunity to say goodbye on your terms is a precious gift. <\/span>Many clients have shared with us how grateful they were to create intentional space on their last day with their companion. Whether they schedule an appointment for end-of-life care and take the day off work, or simply set aside a couple hours to focus their energy on their pet, all have reflected gratitude for taking some time to curate moments as they prepared for that goodbye. In this blog, we are exploring four ways to make this challenging day a celebration of the bond you\u2019ve shared with your pet.<\/span><\/p>\n

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1. Take All the Photos and Videos<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

Whether you do a photo session with a professional photographer or invite someone to tag along with you and your pet, you <\/span>won\u2019t<\/span> regret all the photos and videos to remember your pet. These might take place in your home, in a photography studio, or your pet\u2019s favorite place like the park. Consider taking\u00a0<\/span>both posed and candid photos that best capture your pet\u2019s personality.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Afterwards, whenever you are ready, you can use the photos and videos to create a scrapbook, photo album, wall art, or video slideshow to have a keepsake of your pet.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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2. Enjoy Your Pet\u2019s Most Favorite Things<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

Make a list of 3-5 of your pet\u2019s absolute favorite things that they are still capable of doing. This might be going to a dog-friendly patio, playing with a <\/span>specific toy, or lying in that perfect sunshine spot. Whatever is on the list, take the time to complete them. <\/span>Unfortunate<\/span>ly, the seasons may dictate your plans, but <\/span>we\u2019re<\/span> confident <\/span>you\u2019ll<\/span> be able to <\/span>come up with<\/span> great ideas for this quality time.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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3. A Special Treat<\/h2>\n

Right before your appointment, let your pet indulge in a special treat. <\/span>After all, you<\/span> won\u2019t<\/span> have to worry about the consequences of <\/span>a <\/span><\/span>toxicity<\/span><\/span><\/a> or <\/span><\/span>pancreatitis<\/span><\/span><\/a>. Go ahead and let your pet have whatever <\/span>they<\/span> eye up when you eat<\/span>. Head to the drive-thru and get your dog a cheeseburger <\/span>and ice cream. Let your cat have a fish filet, milk, or tuna salad. Whatever they <\/span>desire!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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4. Have a Goodbye <\/span>Gathering<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

If your pet was social, you might want to consider hosting a small get-together with your pet\u2019s best friends (whether they are other pets or humans). Let everyone get a chance to say goodbye<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span> You can also video chat with those who <\/span>can\u2019t<\/span> attend in-person. Your pet will love seeing all their favorite friends in one day.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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After Your Final Goodbye<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

The <\/span>\u201ca<\/span>fter<\/span>\u201d<\/span> will be the most difficult part of the <\/span>whole day<\/span> as the sudden absence of your pet fills your home. <\/span>Remember to be kind to yourself. <\/span>As you <\/span>process and expe<\/span>rience<\/span> your grief, <\/span>consider the following support options<\/span>:<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n